[童言童語]
At school.
New teacher: Who are you? I don't think I have met you before.
Alex: I am smart and handsome!
New teacher: oh wow, that's good. But I mean, who are you? What's your name?
Alex: Oh, okay then, I am just Alex..
老師們都笑翻了XDDD
雖然我和先生很有共識地, 只稱讚他努力而不是聰明, 稱讚他會選擇配件搭配衣服或是動作表情而不是長相, 但是他還是從其他人那裏聽到很多"you are so smart" "you are handsome"的誇讚, parenting是一場無止盡的拉鋸戰, 想要維持中庸一點都不容易..